Should I be looking for another spiritual director?

Q: Dear Father John, I was wondering if you could give me a bit of perspective. I recently asked a director to help me in my discernment of religious life.  After he agreed I wrote out a summary of the context for my perceived call along with a list of my vices/faults, graces/strengths, etc. The arrangement was that after reading the letter, we would talk, with the idea that I would write... Read More

Where can I find a spiritual director?

Q: Dear Father John, I remember reading long ago St. Vincent Ferrer’s Treatise on the Spiritual Life, which near the end says that those who cannot find a director will, if sincere, be guided by God/the Holy Spirit himself. He does Not say how God will do this (audibly, by supernatural phenomena, by circumstances one lives in or encounters, by books, or some other ways)? I would very Much... Read More

How can I become a spiritual director?

Q: Dear Dan, how does one become a spiritual director? Are there any courses or programs or certifications required? I really believe I am supposed to help people in their faith but how can I make sure that I am really called to do something like this? A: When thinking about spiritual direction my mind is drawn to the incredible responsibility it is to have another soul placed in my care. No... Read More

Spiritual Guides, Spiritual Directors, and Spiritual Mentors – What’s the difference?

Q: Dear Dan, What is the difference between a spiritual director or mentor? I have heard the terms used interchangeably… are they the same thing? A: Good question. Depending upon the source of training of the spiritual director, there are different types or titles of those who offer spiritual direction. For instance, a number of movements in the Church offer training for lay people so that... Read More

How do I find and select a spiritual director?

Q: Dear Father John, what is the best way to find a Spiritual Director? Should it be your pastor? A friend? Or someone whom you do not know when you begin? A. Finding a spiritual director usually follows four steps: First, you need to remember what spiritual direction is all about. The role of a spiritual director is not to tell you what to do, the way a boss or a military drill sergeant does.... Read More

How do I find and select a spiritual director?

Q: Dear Father John, What is the best way to find a Spiritual Director? Should it be your pastor? A friend? Or someone whom you do not know when you begin? A. Finding a spiritual director usually follows four steps: First, you need to remember what spiritual direction is all about. The role of a spiritual director is not to tell you what to do, the way a boss or a military drill sergeant does.... Read More