I hope this online program counts. My possibilities of an actual face-to-face spiritual director are slim to none.
danburke
Well, unfortunately, we can't substitute for a director. Why do you feel you are very unlikely to find one?
guest
Priests here are stretched very thin, non-priest directors I have heard of are, to the best of my ability to describe, liberal or new-age. Being female myself, I wonder if a priest who might be available would be reluctant. If I ask and am turned away, then I've maybe gotten a rep that would make it difficult to approach the person/priest about anything else in the future. Oy.
danburke
Well – be encouraged. Many folks have been in your position in the past and have found themselves, after a great deal of effort and toil, in the hands of a good director. I get notes regularly from people about this. Here is a post that you might find helpful: http://rcspiritualdirection.com/blog/2010/05/27…
Totus2us
Good reminder!
Speaking of directors, are there signs for the directee when it looks like the director is in trouble, spiritually or otherwise? When would it be prudent to consider a change…for other than distance or some other practical reason?
danburke
This is a tough question. St. Teresa of Avila was quick to seek direction and change directors. Her fluidity in this regard helped her to come out of a serious spiritual drought. I personally have had direction from a number of priests and have found the diversity helpful. However, I have never left my original director. This helps with accountability and consistency. It is hard enough to bear your soul to another, let alone many. If you find a good director it is generally a good idea to stick with them even if it might be a challenge to do so. If you are wondering about the health of their spiritual life, ask (gently and respectfully of course).
