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How can I better prepare for Lent this year?


Q: Father John, How can I better prepare for Lent this year?

A: You have no idea what God has in store for you this Lent (but God does, and he is looking forward to it!). On the other hand, you do know that God has chosen to work in our souls through the Liturgy, and that includes the liturgical seasons. So preparing for Lent means getting ready to hear and heed what God wants to say to you during those days. The Church gives us three general directives in this regard.

First, intensify our prayer life

Start thinking now about how you can do this. It’s a good topic to talk about in spiritual direction. Do you need to increase your Eucharistic life, give more discipline to your personal prayer time, inculcate family prayer time, go on a retreat? God will put something on your heart. But be realistic. Don’t let your eyes be bigger than your stomach (in the spiritual sense).

Second, embrace the Cross

Lent is a penitential season, a time when we remember how self-centered we have been and tend to be, and renew our commitment and efforts at repenting and growing in Christian love. This is the origin of the tradition of “giving something up for Lent.” The idea is to make a sacrifice, denying our naturally self-indulgent tendencies in some way in order to unite ourselves more fully to Christ’s redeeming sacrifice on Calvary. This is not merely a self-help kind of resolution. It is a self-offering to God: “Lord, many times I have chosen to do my own will instead of yours. By offering this sacrifice I want to learn to take up my cross, to say “yes” to you and your will, following in Jesus’ footsteps.” Whatever we give up (e.g. watching sports, eating desert) or take on (e.g. daily Mass, weekly Way of the Cross) as our Lenten sacrifice (again, be realistic), the key is to give it that truly Christ-centered meaning.

Third, the practice Christian charity

Lent is a time to prepare for the fruitful celebration of the Lord’s Passion, Death, and Resurrection during Holy Week. That Paschal Mystery was God’s unfathomable and amazing testimony of love for us sinners. There is no better way to get in tune with that self-forgetful and self-sacrificial love than by imitating it. During Lent we should make a special point of serving our neighbors – but here again, be realistic. Here the traditional corporal works of mercy can spark ideas. The Catechism reminds us of them (#2447)

Instructing, advising, consoling, comforting are spiritual works of mercy, as are forgiving and bearing wrongs patiently. The corporal works of mercy consist especially in feeding the hungry, sheltering the homeless, clothing the naked, visiting the sick and imprisoned, and burying the dead.243 Among all these, giving alms to the poor is one of the chief witnesses to fraternal charity: it is also a work of justice pleasing to God

Something in the air of spring brings out new buds, new branches, new life. The word “Lent” has its etymological roots in an Old English word meaning “spring.” Something in the air of Lent will bring out new buds, new branches, new life in our relationship with Christ; we just have to open up some windows.

Yours in Christ, Father John Bartunek, LC

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  • Muthoni
    Fr. Dan,

    I am feeling a little ambushed by events this year. I am going through some internal challenges and this has not helped my every day struggle to get closer to God. However I am going to take this lenten season as an ocassion to start again and ask God to walk with me through all my real and imagined crosses.

    Please remember in your prayers during this very special season.
  • danburke
    Dear Friend in Christ,

    My wife is very happy to know that I am not a priest - but many thanks for the compliment. :-)

    Be assured that you are in my prayers today.

    Dan
  • underhermantle
    Are you preparing for lent?
  • Mary7Macharia
    Once again, thank you Fr. John for this Article. The Lenten Season of this year is very, very special to me. It is the first Season I am going to celebrate as a member of the Eucharistic Apostolate of the Divine Mercy. I am especially looking forward to the Feast of the Divine Mercy and |I am determined to prepare myself to celebrate it as Jesus wishes it to be celebrated. He Himself led me to this Devotion when I prayed for His guidance on where I could share my Christian journey of Faith in a group setting. This was because it is a bit awkward for me to join the Small Christian Communities organized in Parishes due to my advanced age - 71 is not a comfortable stage in life and I would get lost in the family discussions which take place during these Christian Communities meetings where the age group averages 35 - 45 years.

    I, therefore, plan, again with His help, to add the Divine Office morning, evening and night Prayers to my daily prayers, the Holy Hour Eucharistic Adoration followed by Eucharistic Celebration and Holy Communion. I am praying that my Prayers and petitions for the intentions recommended in the Divine Mercy Devotion will be fruitful for our Church, the Universal Church and bring blessings and Indugencies for those we shall pray for. I shall, of course, be praying for you Father, because your Website has become my Spiritual Lifeline and Guide. God bless you and all our faithful on this Website during this Redemptive Season and throughout their lives.
  • Cathy
    This is my second lent. Last year I started with the Liturgy of the Hours, and am still praying that. I know I do not do it correctly, but the prayers and readings are beautiful and uplifting. My lent this year, I am not sure what I am going to do. I am praying, because He led me this far, He will show me where to go. I know that you are the second priest (of all I have come across) to give a sense of urgency to the Eucharist. I need to receive that on a more regular basis. This lent I want to get even closer to His merciful heart, and I know through suffering He does that. He is pulling me closer even as we speak
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